Alonzo Franklin Parish and Ida Lavisa Pettingill Family Blog

To all Family Members:
Share your pictures and stories about our ancestors by sending them via email to: brenda.bailey.1@hotmail. They will be posted on the family blog and available for all of our family to enjoy.

Heritage Album

HERITAGE ALBUM
Black and white photos aged with time now cover the pages before you. These pictures are a reminder of a moment in time and give us a past to hold onto.

The harders of times our loved ones endured as they steadily paved the way. Gratitude and respect they have earned and their legacy of love we can never repay.

Each photo has a story of personal happiness, heartaches, blood and sweat. But for their individual journeys and their legacies to live, the sacrifices we must not forget.

Hold onto the history stored within these precious pages and allow these stories to live. For these memories of trial and triumph are the most priceless treasure that one can give. By Wendy Silva

Old Photographs by Ernest Jack Sharpe

OLD PHOTOGRAPHS by Ernest Jack Sharpe
A box of faded photographs I opened yesterday, And instantly my memories were carried far away

To many friends and places, from years so long ago, As I sorted through those photographs of folks I used to know.

There were some of family members that are no longer here, and photographs of sweethearts I once thought very dear.

Thoughts swiftly raced and tumbled on things that are no more, As I daydreamed over photographs and happy days of yore.

ANCESTORS

ANCESTORS

If you could see your Ancestors All standing in a row, Would you be proud of them, or not, or don't you really know?

Some strange discoveries are made in climbing family trees. And some of them, you know do not particularly please.

If you could see your Ancestors all standing in a row, These might be some of them perhaps, You wouldn't care to know.

But here's another question which requires a different view, If you could meet your Ancestors, Would they be proud of you?

Sunday, March 3, 2013

Ida Parish's Sewing Maching



Picture of Grandma Parish's Sewing Machine shared by Pam Parish (Ruby) daughter of Theral and Dorthy Parish



Here is a picture of grandma parish's sewing machine.  It has been on display at the Daughters of the Utah Pioneers and then my daughter Laurel used it at a young women's program.  On the machine are some of grandmas old wooden spools that came in the old jar when I got the machine. The dress sitting on the machine was a doll dress she made me when I was 8-years old. It has been repaired but I still treasure it. The attachment tin box on the machine also came in the drawers. The crocheted square luncheon cloth she also did but I'm not sure when.   I remember it on a drop leaf table she had in her living room at the farm on 27th after they had sold the ranch in Elba and moved to Burley.  I was about 5-years old when i first noticed the cloth.  The old iron sitting on the ironing board was hers.  I don't have the cord to it, but I was given a little electric iron when I was 6 and I keep it in my laundry room along with grandma's. 

The dress belonged to Gail Storm who was a star in South Pacific stage version.  I have a girlfriend in California and her grandfather was a tailor and use to do a lot of clothing for the stars. She gave it to me as a gift as I really liked Gail Storm.   She recently passed away in 2011 at 86 years old.   She was a good actress and mother of four children, a family type person.  She was so tiny.

Saturday, February 4, 2012

Parish Reunion 2012

 Dear Parish Family Members!!

Oels family is in charge of the Parish Reunion this year and I have created a group on the following website:

www.facebook.com/groups/ParishReunion.ElbaPark2012     
                                                                                                                          
 Please add yourself and others as members. We will post info and updates thru emails and the Parish Reunion Group website!!

The Elba Park has been reserved for the 3rd weekend in July so you can plan ahead!!

Please send any family email addresses to me at: holliewashburn@yahoo.com 

Mark your calendars July 19th. 20th, 21st and 22nd!! Saturday will be the lunch, quilt raffle, auction, dutch oven yummy dinner!!!

Horseshoes Tournament was a BIG HIT last year!! Put in $1.00 win the pot!!

Maybe some basketball competitions, a talent show and other game ideas!!!!

Also we will have a quilt for the auction and need items for the auction. This has turned into a FUN time to raise money for the Reunion Fund!!

Seriously, grown men bidding on Kaylin's homemade jam-Hilarious...

and Brittany made 2 beautiful pictures-one said FAMILY & one said PARISH-that sold well-thank you Britt...

and anyone that wanted to order one her phone number is 208-431-8483-or if you request a certain last name for the auction-let me know!! JONES-PARISH-FAMILY-?????

Thanks and hope to see everyone at the Reunion!!! Please help share the date -email, phone calls, facebook, add names to this group!!!
We are planning a FUN REUNION for 2012!!!

Thanks, love you all, from Oel's family!!!!

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Ida Lavisa Pettingill Life History

Ida Lavisa Pettingill was born in Elba, Cassia, Idaho on March 2, 1884, the fifth of nine children. She was the daughter of John Christopher and Everline Taylor Pettingill.

She spent her young girlhood in Elba moving to Willard, Box-Elder, Utah and then back to Elba, Idaho. She lived on a farm and did what most farm girls did, helping with the younger children. She went to the Upper District School, there being the Upper and Lower Districts. She went to the lower district part of the time.

Her father was a good violinist and Ida and her other sisters had to accompany him on the organ as he played for dances at Elba and surrounding towns. Sometimes they took their own organ. She loved to dance, and the dances were all night affairs in those days. Everyone took food and all shared and ate about midnight. I can remember the old Ward House which my grandfather helped build. In the West end there was a bed where all of the babies were put while they danced. Grandma had a lovely voice and used to sing in the choir and sing solos at ward functions and funerals.

Grandma was a cowgirl. Grandma and Grandpa were childhood sweethearts, knowing each other all of their lives as they grew up together. She was a pretty girl and he was a good looking boy. On August 13, 1902 they were married at her parent’s home in Elba. They spent their honeymoon on a hay ranch in Malta, Idaho as he had a contract to harvest the hay, and she cooked for the crew. Later they went to the mine in Connor Creek, he working in the mine and she cooked for the workers there. She tied her belongings in a sheet and moved on her horse.

Pictures of where Ida grew up in Elba Idaho. The house burned down but some of the outbuildings are still there.






Later they were sealed in the Salt Lake Temple on Aug 13, 1903.

In 1904 they bought an 80 acre farm of Hyrum Ward's in Elba. This was the family home for 45 years. The house was just two rooms at first, then two more rooms were added and later a five room home was built, using the original two rooms. All of her children were born, raised and married while still living in that home. She used orange crates for furniture and oat straw to fill the the bed. There was no running water in the house. They made their first carpet out of rags. They bought a sewing machine and the last payment was a cow. She made all of her soap.

Ida was active in the ward taking part in dramatics, President of Y.W.M.I.A.; Counselor in the Relief Society (1925), teacher in Sunday School, ward organist and secretary for the Sunday School for 7 years.

Picture of Elba Relief Society Building where Ida served as 2nd Counselor in the Relief Society for several years.
Elba Ward Relief Society Building



The transportation was first by horseback, wagon buggy and then a Model-T Ford and later they had other cars. She made trips to Ogden for supplies. They borrowed a stove and bought a table. She had one new dress a year and purchased flour from the mill.

Ida was an expert seamstress making all of their clothes and coats. She knitted the stockings. She made over all the clothes she could get to do that were worth sewing. She not only sewed for 7 children but neighbors and relatives. She made all of the quilts. She was always making something for the children or for the home. She had good taste. They stored ice in a sawdust bin under the wagon shed. They had lots of blizzards and snowstorms.
Ida July 1945 in her yard in Elba
She was a good cook and always had a big garden, berries and fruit patches, which they canned for the winter. It was no small task to keep 9 people clothed and fed. Most of the children had music lessons and other advantages that were available.

Ida didn't enjoy very good health, being anemic. They were a long way from a doctor and so she nursed her family through illnesses. When the children had measles, she got them too and then getting pneumonia she almost died. She was ill for a long time.

She used to go out helping the sick, especially pneumonia patients. Geral had it twice and she took care of him not getting undressed for many nights. She also helped lay out the dead and make burial clothes along with the other Relief Society Sisters. There weren’t undertakers then. They put a breast plate on top of the caskets.

After the children were married, they sold the farm and bought a 40 acre farm in Burley in 1950 where they lived until grandpa's death. Their son Oel and his family bought the farm. She moved into different places and then later into the Romney Apartments, where she lived until she went to live with her daughter Alta in Utah.

Ida lived in the Romney Apartments 1501 Miller Ave in Burley until she went to live
with her daughter Alta before her death

While in Burley she was chorister and visiting teacher. She has been a devoted wife and mother, teaching her children to do right and helping her husband in anyway she could She as broken her hip twice but recovered very well.

Grandma died peacefully at Aunt Alta's home in Salt Lake City, Utah on 20 Dec. 1974. She was buried at Gem Memorial Gardens in Burley, Cassia, Idaho on the 23 Dec. 1974 in a beautiful white velvet casket.

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Alonzo Franklin Parish - Tribute Given at Funeral

The following is a tribute given at his funeral by Sylvan Burgi written by Alta Parish Glade, a daughter:

He was small of stature, five feet seven was all he stood,
But he accomplished as much as most any man could.
He only weighed one forty five, but was as active as any man alive.

He could always find something to do,
And how to work was one thing he knew.
He toiled from early morn till night,
And he’d never do anything if he thought it not right.

He was hones in his dealing with men,
And he was always in harmony with the gospel plan.
He scattered gladness and sunshine along his way,
And he brought joy to the hearts of those who listened to what he had to say.

He was a man with a heart of gold,
And a character that couldn’t be bought nor sold.
Seasoned with toil, sorrow and sweat,
Somehow he didn’t look old, just yet.

With seventy one years written across his brow,
Only death has stilled his earthly labors now.
But he will go on in the eternal realm,
And may you find peace, knowing that God is at the helm.

Alonzo Franklin Parish Life History

Alonzo Franklin Parish was born 16 April 1882 in Willard, Box Elder, Utah. He was blessed on 2 June 1882 and baptized on 12 July 1890. He married Idaho Lovisa Pettingill on 13 August 1902 in Elba, Cassia, Idaho.

Alonzo had a wonderful disposition, seldom getting angry. He loved to whistle, sometimes a little off key, but sounded good to his kids.

He was an early riser and expected everyone to be up and about his duties. He was noisy when he arose to build the fire. He worked long hard hours not always doing justice to himself. He enjoyed working and seldom took time off for fishing or relaxation. He got his enjoyment out of nature and watching his crops grow. He loved the mountains close by.

He loved his children, romping with his own and the neighbors. Every grandchild was a great event so he could enjoy soft sweet kisses. He was much like his mother, reciting poems, singing catchy tunes, etc. All children were nice to him, brown black or white, clean or dirty.

He worked hard with his wife to raise their children. They always had plenty to eat and there was always room for others. He sheared sheep in the surrounding towns and enjoyed talking to his many friends.

Lon provided a comfortable home for his wife and family. He made a closed in breeze way from the kitchen to the cellar so they didn’t have to go outside. He built a small building that held ice using sawdust to insulate it so they could have root beer on the 4th of July. He also sold ice blocks during the summer months. He put in the first indoor bathroom in the Elba Valley. Theral was a senior in high school when the electricity was put in the house.

He was an honest man and never beat anyone out of anything. In fact, he wouldn’t collect bills if it would cause hard feelings. He wasn’t a good businessman but friends with everyone. He administered to the sick, helped deliver babies, etc. “Lon” as he was known was in the Bishopric for 23 years. He also was a good actor and served as drama director.

His children were Alta, Delta, Orvis, Eveline, Oel Elihu, Geral John and Theral Fredrick. In 1950 they moved to Burley, Cassia, Idaho buying a 40-acre farm. He enjoyed the farm since it was easier work and there was plenty of water. He raised good crops there.
Alonzo and Ida Parish 50th Wedding Anniversary - 1952

He was killed on the 16th of April 1953 on his 71st birthday. He was plowing the garden alongside the creek. The tractor wheel hit a cement block and the tractor overturned into Goose Creek which ran through their property next to the garden, pinning him underneath it. His wife, Ida was watching him work from their living room window. He was buried 20 April 1953 at Gem Memorial Gardens in Burley, Cassia, Idaho.


Pictures of Homestead in Elba where Alonzo and Ida raised their family.